May we never forget…Happy Memorial Day
Monday, May 25th, 2009Wow…much has happened since my last post. Last Sunday, our summer staff arrived at camp and we’ve been working like crazy to get through training, finish our prep work around the camp grounds and get ready for the 1200-1500 kids we’re planning for this summer. Everyday last week started around 6:15 with a workout and ended around 10:30 when we finally finished our CPR/First Aid training sessions. So, life has been busy, but this is one of my favorite times of the year.
On Friday, Melissa and I loaded up in our little Geo Prism, stuffed Maximus in the back seat, and headed south to Bedford for my 10 year high school reunion. Since I was class president, I was responsible for planning the event. For anyone who knows me, you know I am a “live in the moment” type of person and planning out details in advance is about as fun for me as having my entire body hot waxed by a cross dressing man named Leroy doing hard time for beating up his grandma (okay, perhaps that was a bit of a stretch, but I still hate planning things)! So, for this event, I was elated to have my old friend Lindsay Mitchell (now Fletcher), whom you may remember from a blog a few months ago about my most embarrassing/pathetic JH crush (Blog Title “Cash Cab” from January), as the point person for the entire thing. She did a great job getting everything in order and all I really had to do was show up and grill burgers all evening. It was a great time and I really enjoyed seeing so many old friends I hadn’t seen in about 3650 days. It was also a time of reflection for me as I tried to recall anyone who I might have been unfair, unfriendly, or just an outright jerk toward who might be at the reunion with intent to see my life come to an untimely end! I know that probably overstates the case, but I really tried to think of anyone with whom I might need to make amends because I don’t want to be “that guy” and don’t want to live at odds with anyone if I can help it. Most everyone I talked with was friendly and we shared about good times we’d had together. In fact, there wasn’t really anyone I saw I felt awkward toward or with whom I sensed I really needed to make amends. If you’re reading this and you are a person I have somehow hurt in the past, please know I am sincerely sorry and would love to talk with you personally about it. Life is too short to live at odds with others (Romans 12:18: If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone).
All in all, it was a great time and a few of us even decided to get together for dinner on Saturday evening. I loved the chance to reconnect and also to have Melissa meet some of the people I grew up with and for them to meet her. In case you didn’t know, I’m really fond of my bride and think the world should know how awesome she is! Lindsay and her husband, Daniel (who I played football with), are expecting their first child just a few weeks after we’re expecting our first. It was so strange to see people who I’d know since early elementary when they had bad hair cuts and were missing teeth that are successful business owners, spouses and parents. As is often the case, our time in Bedford prompted Melissa and me to discuss how difficult it is to grasp the idea of being almost 30! I know for many of you that milestone has come and gone (and you probably have smart comments to make, which I always encourage), but for us, we still feel like we should be roller skating around our basements or blowing up frogs with m-80’s in the creek behind our barn! In the immortal words of Nationwide Insurance, “Life comes at you fast.”
We carried that feeling with us to Popcorn Christian Church on Sunday morning where I gave a brief presentation to a group of people who watched me grow up for most of my formative years. Popcorn is partnering with us in our work here at Rainbow and it was great to give them a picture of what their funds are going toward. It was also great to see so many old friends and to see them share in our excitement about our new baby. We said our goodbyes after church and headed back north toward home to meet Melissa’s parents, who are here for the holiday and helping us get things sorted out with our landscaping in the yard. For me, if the yard is green and you can see more grass than weeds, I’m usually happy. However, Melissa has a bit more of a green thumb and we’re trying to make since of all our flower beds and figure out what needs to go where.
The only other big news for the time being is our animal barn here at camp, which is rapidly filling with animals in need of rescue. We are a wildlife rescue site and whenever the C.O. in the area comes across a wounded or neglected wild animal, we often get the chance for rehab. Currently, we have 4 baby raccoons, a juvenile red-tailed fox, and a fawn still covered in spots. We should be getting another fawn tomorrow and we’ll have the responsibility as a staff to feed and care for them until they’re ready to be released into the wild. It’s awesome to take our campers to the barn and see them light up when they get to bottle feed a baby raccoon! We enjoyed feeding them this morning and, aside from the bruise on my foot I have from kicking the cow in the head with my sandals on, life is good (Hey, he was trying to eat all the chicken feed in the chicken barn and the only way to move him is to grab an ear, twist it like you’re turning on an outdoor water spigot, and kick him square in the noggin’)! After the ordeal was over, I limped back to the house, enjoyed some Chicago pizza for lunch, and sat down to blog for all of cyber space. Since this blog is mostly informative and not exactly controversial, just tell us know about your own HS reunions (if you’ve had them) and if you have any crazy stories from your own life about dealing with people you were a bully to or were bullied by in HS…

