Chewing on Socks and Paper Cuts

February 1st, 2010 by joe

As I sit here in my easy chair, fighting off the chill from our single pane windows with my grandma’s old comforter wrapped snugly around myself, I’m taking joy in the little things like watching Wheel of Fortune and listening to my little boy coo his heart out. Life is good. Jake has a new obsession with sucking on any type of cloth he can find…bibs, shirts, blankets, towels, whatever. I find it rather cute, but my sweet wife finds it revolting. She has a strange aversion to cotton against her teeth and seeing Jake happily chewing his bath towel covered in ducks is almost more than she can handle. It makes me think about the strange things that freak some of us out but don’t bother others in the slightest. Here’s another one:

I read alot and sometimes when I’m turning a page my fingernails will scrape against the paper. For some reason, it makes me shudder and want to stop reading almost everytime. Since I am given to fits of insanity, I will invariably become distracted by the thought and feeling of scraping the stupid page over and over again. Sometimes it leads to thoughts of another paper related faux pas of mine and I can’t get the idea of deep manilla envelope paper cuts between my fingers out of my head. I hate even writing about it and my fingers are tingling nervously as I type.

I could go on an on about things that make me cringe. Seeing someone turn an ankle on TV; hearing a fork scrape against a plate; thinking about biting my tongue off (strange, I know); thinking about having a splinter shoved under my toenails; thinking about shutting my finger in a car door; and the list goes on and on. So, I’ll put it to you: Do you have anything like chewing on socks or scraping a paper with your fingernail that really bugs you and gets under your skin? If so, tell the world all about it.

Before I go, here are a couple more recent pictures of Jake, who has apparently decided 7 pm is his fussy time of the day.

A Baby Lives for 8 Days in a Collapsed House in Jacmel, Haiti

January 22nd, 2010 by joe

I know many read this blog, and due to the Appalachian Trail info, many of the readers are from around the world. As such, I feel right now is an appropriate time to use it as a means of letting everyone know about the daily trials and successes of my dear friend Tina Isenhower, who is being used in amazing ways, serving as a missionary to the people of Haiti. This is the 2nd email update of hers I am passing along and will continue to do so in the coming days. If you have questions about how you can help, please feel free to respond here on the post or at joe.wisley@rainbowcamp.org.

 

FROM TINA ISENHOWER 

January 18, 2010

      Dad, a couple of my workers, and I went into Jacmel today to look for food to buy.  We were able to find some.  But it took us all day.  We were not able to find what we needed to feed the kids all in one place.  We could not find more than a couple 100 lb. bags of rice or beans at any one place.  But we are thankful that we were able to make 4 trips to town today with food.

     Dad and I went to the hospital today to visit people.  We still have no foreign aid or Doctors at the hospital.  People are still sleeping outside because the hospital is so damaged.    Everyone has a story of how they survived or of people that they have lost.

     The lady with the fractured arm still hasn’t had it amputated.  Her flesh is literally rotting off and there is nothing worse than smelling rotten flesh except burning flesh.

     The little baby who is about 26 days old is barely hanging on.  They can not find oxygen for him.  His grandma was holding him and tears was running down his mother’s face.  This is their first child.  The only thing the Haitian Doctors and Cuban doctors can do it give him IV’s to keep him hydrated and hope help will arrive soon.

     I am so overwhelmed I do not know what to do.  I feel exhausted mentally and physically.  It is hard to sleep.  When I close my eyes I keep seeing images of demolished buildings, dead people laying on the street, and faces of little children.  We are still experiencing tremors from the earthquake almost daily.  People are still sleeping in the streets and in open lots.

Tomorrow is another day of service for the King.  I pray God will lead me to the people who need it the most.  I am trying to access the damage done to my workers homes, but the saddest thing is that I haven’t found a family yet who has not lost someone in the earthquake either in Jacmel or Port-au-Prince. 

     I am so thankful to have my parents and Linda Roller here right now helping me.  Dad and I go out in search of food to buy to give to the people while Mom and Linda sort and repackage it, getting it ready to distribute.

 

January 19, 2010

     Today Dad and I got up at 5:00 a.m. and went to Marigot where the merchant ships come in 2 times a week to sell in bulk to businesses.  We were not able to get rice or beans but we were able to flour, sugar, oil, fish, and salami.  We were very thankful!  This took most of the morning.  It still amazes me how God has been providing for us.

     We got almost all of our staple items in 100lb bags.  Mom and Linda Roller and the little girls who are staying with us temporarily, repackaged all the food we have gotten so far into smaller packages to give away. 

     Dad and I went back to Jacmel to try and find more beans and rice.  We didn’t make it back until around 3:00 p.m.  I was exhausted.  I went straight to bed and slept for a couple of hours. 

     I did not go to the hospital today because I just couldn’t handle it emotionally.

     Tomorrow is a new day.

January 20, 2010

Between 5:30 a.m. and 6:00 a.m. this morning my dogs and all the other dogs started howling.  The first thought that ran thru my mind was someone else has died in the area, but then the whole house started shaking again.  I jumped out of bed and was met in the hallway by Rachel, LeeLein (her friend), and Linda.  I ran to check on Mom and Dad and Rachel and LeeLein ran to check on the little girls.  I heard Rachel calling them.  She said why did you stay in your room, Jeanette(9 years old) told her the only thing we knew to do was get on our knees on our bed and pray.   

    So our day began early again.  I helped distribute some food from our mission house to employees and people in our area who needed it. 

     Mom and Linda finished packing up the food boxes with the help of our littlest house guests.

     I felt so overwhelmed today that I snuck off by myself and went to the hospital.  I was very excited to see that the Canadian Army had arrived the night before and had started putting up hospital tents to protect the people from the rain and sun.  The Doctors were trying to do what they could.  Some of the platoon was sorting supplies but still waiting on other supplies to arrive.  I talked to them a little bit and offered to translate for them if they needed me.  They said they were in good shape for right now but wanted to keep in touch with me, so I gave them my cell phone number.

     I was sad to learn the little boy who needed oxygen died right before they arrived.  I saw another baby about a month old and talked to her mother.  The mother told me the little girl was only 15 days old when the earthquake hit.  Her mom put her on her bed and went outside to get water.  When the earthquake hit she ran to get her baby and saw her house crumble before her.  She was devastated.  She thought her baby was dead.  Eight days later later when they started removing the rubble, they found the baby still on the bed and alive!!!!  Her Mom said she was a gift from God and she had to have a Bible name.  She named her Elizabeth.  The baby was barely breathing but she was put on IV’s and the only other thing wrong with her is her private areas had diaper rash because there was no one to change her.  This story brought tears to my eyes.

     I talked to a lady whose sister and 8 month old baby girl were pulled from a collapsed house.  The baby has severe head injuries and a broken leg.  I am hoping the baby will make it now that the Canadian Army is here.  The mother is not doing well either.  The Aunt is staying with the baby.

     Every where I look there are injured people.  What is hardest for me to handle is the children.  I saw a 4 year old today and he also had severe head injuries as well as several broken bones.  He also was in a house that collapsed.

    I am so thankful to have my parents and Linda here helping me right now.  They are a big blessing.   Tomorrow we are expecting around 1,500 children to feed.

January 21, 2010

     Today all of us got up early and went to the school by 6:00 a.m. to help get food ready since we were feeding extra children and adults.      I was in town (Jacmel) by 8:00 a.m. with Dad and Linda looking for spoons and bowls.  We were not very successful.  We had so many children we did not have room for them.  We gave out tickets so we wouldn’t have a mob.  Everything went well until a little after 12 noon.  Another tremor hit and moved cafeteria tables and other furniture in the school.  I thought we were having another earthquake.  Everyone ran outside.  Food went everywhere in the kitchen and Linda got knocked down by people trying to run out of the building.  Thankfully she just hurt her leg and her injuries were not more serious.  While we were all gathered in the yard about 10 minutes later, another tremor came thru.    Everyone ran out into the road.

     I decided not to feed the kids at school any more because we are still having bad tremors.  We gave out tickets again and tomorrow we will give everyone rice, beans, oil, canned herring and other food items to cook at their house. 

     Supplies are running low in Jacmel.  It is very difficult to find rice. 

     I came home played with the little girls who are staying with us, ate, and then I was finally able to get a couple hours sleep today and woke up less tired and my mind is a little clearer.

     I think at least 75% of the schools we had in jacmel have now been destroyed or damaged to the point they need to come down and be rebuilt.

     Many of you have asked what is needed.  I am still accessing everything.  After the bad tremors we have had this week we have even more damage.  Houses that were damaged before are no longer standing and houses that were not damaged are now damaged.  We all feel like we can’t even start cleaning up because you start and then a tremor goes thru and you have more damage.

      I was happy to see that the Canadian Army and other organizations gave out pup tents.  So now the people who are sleeping outside and in the streets have something to keep the rain off of them.

     I am overwhelmed by the prayers and e-mails we have received.  I will try to get to everyone’s e-mails as soon as I can.

God Bless

Tina Isenhower

Missionary to Haiti

An Update From a Survivor in Haiti

January 18th, 2010 by joe

Many of you may know I traveled to Haiti with a team from camp last spring and spent some time working on building a church camp about 40 miles south of Port au Prince, near Jacmel, on the south coast of the island. We stayed with a lady named Tina, who was also our missionary out at camp this summer. She grew up in Indiana but has lived in Haiti over 25 years, building a school for over 1000 kids, starting churches, and changing the world. She’s done all this while being almost blind due to some nearly lethal anti-malaria meds she was given when she first arrived. She was in PAP during the earthquake and I wanted to post her story of the first few days. It is long and hastily written, but well worth the read. Please take time to read this and pray God continues to use her in amazing ways. The picture below shows Gerard Eustache, a wonderful man who lost his home and about 15 people in his church.

Gerard and me, talking into the night @ Tina's

Gerard and me, talking into the night @ Tina's

 

The following is an email we received from Tina:

Jacmel, Haiti 6:00 p.m. January 16, 2010

Dear Friends and family: 

     I want to thank you for all your prayers and e-mails.  Here is an account of the past few days here in Haiti since the earthquake hit.  All these miracles and events happened because of prayer, God watching over us, and trusting in Him.  Throughout all our ordeal my parents and I were praying and putting our trust in God.

January 12, 2010

    Tuesday the 12th of January was a normal day for me.  I got up and left early and did a few things before heading off to Port-au-Prince about 11:00 a.m. to pick up my parents who were scheduled to arrive on AA at 4:15 p.m.  I left Rachel with Linda Roller (a friend who is spending a few months with us) in Jacmel and set off for Port-au-Prince.  A good friend a co worker Pastor Gerard Eustache had come to drive me to Port-au-Prince.  We arrived about 2:00 p.m.  I have Adrenal Fatigue Syndrome and it was acting up so he dropped me off at LeKaribe Hotel and was going to send a driver with my vbehicle to pick up my parents.  He was going to go get ready and go to Bible Study at his Church.  Mom & Dad’s plane arrive at 3:53 and they were out of the airport by 4:20.  I talked to them via cell phone and they were on their way to the hotel.    At 4:40 p.m. I talked to them again and they were less than 10 minutes from the hotel @ 4;44 an earthquake hit Haiti.  I had just hung up from talking to another friend on my cell phone.  It threw me off of the bed and onto the floor.  I hit my shoulder hard on the bedside table.  Immediately a huge portrait fell off the wall on to the bed where I had been sitting.  The television landed by my right foot and a mirror landed by my left foot shattering glass all over me.  Praise God I was not cut.  I did not know what to do.  To try and jump from my balcony ro try and get out the door.  I finally decided on the door because there was 2 floors below me (lobby and 1st floor).  It took me about 10 minutes to get my door open  I was the first door on the floor on our wing of the hotel.  I looked to my right and you could not see any other rooms for all the debris and plaster falling.  I crawled over debris and made it to the landing on our floor by the elevators and crawled down the emergency stairs.  I made it to the 1st floor but could not make it to the lobby because it was caved in and you could not see it.  I remembered a back stairway on 1st floor and crawled and walked over debris to get there.  Once I got to the back stairway leading outside I was able to safely escape the hotel.  Many people were injured and hurt from broken glass and fallen debris.  Once outside it was terrible.  I could hear people screaming and could still see houses falling off the mountainsides.    People began rescuing people still stuck in the hotel.  One of the rescue people climbed in my hotel window and retrieved a small overnight bag which had my purse in it. 
     I had my cell phone in my pocket.  I tried calling Mom & Dad  and Gerard and I could not get thru to anyone because all the cell phone towers in our area had fallen down.  Everyone was in the street waiting on rescue teams.  No one came.  About 9:00 they finally made us all go to the tennis court because the after shocks were so strong that they were afraid that the hotel was going to finish collapsing the rest of the way.
     We were given a glass of water and appetizers that was suppose to have been for a conference that night.  Everyone was given 4 small cracker size appetizers with smoked salmon and caviar.  Boy did it taste good.  I felt sorry for the children crying.  They had let people whose had lost their houses in the neighborhood sleep on the tennis court also   I used my overnight bag as a pillow.  I am so amazed how God takes care of us.  I was cold.  A man named Antoine brought me his coat.  He had just flown in from Washington D.C. that morning.  He had a suit on plus a coat.  He gave me his coat to cover up with.  I kept praying for Mom, Dad, and Gerard’s safety.      I dozed on and off  all night until 5:00 a.m.  

January 13, 2010

     I dozed on and off  all night until 5:00 a.m. Security tried to make me stay on the tennis court or by the pool but I went and sat on the curb in front of the hotel.  I had decided to wait until 8 a.m. and If I could not get a hold of Mom and Dad then I was going to try and get a motorcycle taxi to take me to Gerard’s and  down the street where I knew they were traveling down when the earthquake hit.  At 7:46 my Nissan Patrol pulled up with Mom, Dad, and Gerard’s driver.  They had been trying to get to me all night.  They finally gave up at midnight.  They had been able to connect up with Gerard.  They all slept in the car on the street in front of Gerard’s house.  Gerard lost everything except his Bible, clothes on his back and his vehicle.  If it has not been a church night he would have most likely have been in the house when it collapsed.  He was only 1 block from his house when the earthquake hit on his way to Bible Study.

     I was never so glad to see anyone in my life.  I ran towards the car and Dad jumped out and ran towards me.  Mom was so overwhelmed she laid her head on the window and cried.  We decided to go back to Gerard’s and try a small 15-20 bed hotel near Gerard’s.  Because all the big hotels in out area had collapsed.  The El Rancho, Montana, Hotel Christopher just to name a few.  It should have taken us 10 minutes to get to where Gerard’s house use to be it took us 3 hours.  I have never saw so much destruction.  I felt like I was in a war zone.  People walking everywhere in the Streets.  Children sitting beside the roads with no adults in sight.  We went by one of the hospitals and they had tied sheets on poles in the yard to handle the injured.  Dad and I saw a lady die right in front of our eyes.  You could not look at a building without seeing a foot, arm, leg, or head sticking out from under the collapsed buildings.  Dead bodies stacked 2 and 3 high in some places.  I saw 4 little children laying dead beside the road.  Someone had covered them with a sheet.  Mothers were stopping by the bodies and lifting up the sheet to see if it was their missing child.  This broke my heart.  There were dead bodies lined up along the streets.
     We finally made it to the Coconut Villa Hotel.  The walls surrounding the hotel had fallen down but the hotel itself was still in tact.  Most foreigners do not stay there so we were able to get a room.  They wre dipping water out of the pool to clean the rooms and for people to bathe in.  Lots of people were sleeping in the yard of the hotel by the pool.  We collapsed on our beds and fell asleep we were awaken a few times by tremors (after shock).  We got up around 5:00 and was offered some goulash.  I didn’t ask what was in it, nor did my parents we were just thankful to have food.  Gerard walked to the hotel to check on us around 6:00 p.m.  He had been at his Church.  He was going to sleep in his car again and watch his house because people were starting to loot houses.  He was going to wait until the after shocks were over to see if they couldn’t dig their way in and retrieve some things.  I was so thankful he was safe.  He did not want to stay with us. Him and some of his Church people were going to help with the night vigil in his neighborhood to keep people from looting.
I still had not been able to make contact with Rachel and Linda in Jacmel.    Finally, my phone rang and it was a neighbor stating Rachel wanted to talk to me.  She wanted to know when I was coming because the road to Jacmel was broken.  She said Linda and her were sleeping outside in a field behind our house and then the line went dead.
We were finally able to get out to the States for 2 minutes until we were cut off and let my brother-in-law and sister know we were okay.  Chuck was able to e-mail Rachel and let me know she was okay.

January 14, 2010

We were offered bread for breakfast.  Again, we were thankful for what we could find.  We were told we would have chicken and rice around 1:00 or 2:00.  We were excited to hear this.
We were advised not to try and travel to Jacmel.  Dad and I walked around the neighborhood of the hotel we were at.  It was horrible.  People were literally sleeping in the streets. I was finally able to make contact with Rachel and Linda again and the States.
Gerard stopped by around 2:00 p.m. and said he would send a driver to drive us to Jacmel the next day.  We were eleated.

January 15, 2010

    O Cap, Gerard’s driver came about 5:46 a.m. and we headed for Jacmel.  I was overwhelmed by what I saw.  They were starting to burn bodies in the streets.  I saw  dead bodies tied to pieces of tin and being pulled behind vehicles to burn sites.  I saw 5 heads that were still burning the rest of the bodies had all ready burned.  I cannot clear my sinuses of the smell of burning flesh.  I passed by the ruins of the Palace National of Haiti, the downtown prison, the Palace of Justice and many other government buildings in ruins.  There was not an open space that people had not made make shift housing on.  This was done by driving poles in the ground and covering them with a shirt, towel, sheet, or any other type of cloth they could find.    
     There was a mass exodus from the city.  People were exiting Port-au-Prince on foot, carrying what little belongings they had salvaged along with their children and other family members.  Some had not been able to salvage anything they just carried their children.  One man carried a child on his shoulders and another in his arms.  They were heading for the country.  As we traveled outside of Port-au-Prince towards the mountains I was still overwhelmed by the devastation. 
     We finally made it 1/3 of the way over the mountain to Jacmel and encountered a rock slide, or so we thought.  Actually the road had caved in.  At the bottom of the cave in was 3 busses that had been full of people and no survivors.  We would not even get across the deep ravine by motorcycle.  We had to turn around and go back to Port-au-Prince.  We tried to go to the small airport to see if we could get a charter to Jacmel but was told that the small airport was closed and we were turned back at the gate.  We finally arrived back at the Hotel again around noon and the room we had vacated that morning was the only room they had left.  We were thankful and once again thanked our heavenly Father for providing for us.
I was really down because we could not communicate with Rachel or Jacmel.  Finally, some of my staff got thru for a minute or two.  I learned Rachel and Linda were still sleeping outside.  The island was still getting after shocks.  My friends Carol and Glyn Price were able to get thru from the States.  They were such an encouragement.
Gerard came by and said we couldn’t try again until Monday.  We were thankful to have chicken and rice again for supper.  Only meal of the day.  But he would be by the next morning.

January 16, 2010

    By 11:00 a.m. we still had not seen Gerard.  We continue to feel the after shocks of the earthquake.  Buildings that were standing but unstable are continuing to fall from the tremors.  I decided to drive the 8 blocks to Gerard’s house.  I knew they were going to try and see if they couldn’t get some stuff out.  I saw that he was busy with some of his Church people trying to see if they could get anything out of the ruins of his house. 
     I told him I was going to the small airport again to see if I could get a charter to Jacmel.  He said he head I would not be able too.  Once again when I got to the small airport I was told no planes were flying.  I told them I would check for myself (I said it with a smile) and went on thru the gate.  I told Mom & Dad to wait in the SUV.  I went inside and the airport was deserted except for a few people.  The few people who were there told me that the airport was closed.  No flights.  I saw a mechanics who works with Missionary Aviation Flights (MAF) outside messing with one of the planes.  I asked a security guard to go get him for me.  He said he was not cleared to go out to the planes.  I asked him to find someone who was authorized.  He found someone.  Todd came inside to talk to me.  I explained my situation and he said I would have to talk to one of the pilots by the name of Will, but it didn’t look promising.  Will one of the pilots came in and I explained by situation to him.  He looked at his watch and it was 12:40.  He said if you can be back here by 2:00 p.m. I will try but I heard the runway in Jacmel is damaged but we will try it.  Going to the airport we experienced a bad traffic jam.  Took us over an hour to get there.  We made it back to Gerard’s house within 10 minutes and picked up a driver to return my SUV to Gerard, swung by the hotel and picked up Mom and Dad’s luggage and was back at the airport by 1:20.  We did not encounter any traffic jam.   We were in the air by 2:15 p.m.   I prayed all the way to Jacmel.  By 2:45 we were on the ground in Jacmel.  They had just fixed the runway and 3 planes from the Dominican Republic had landed with supplies for Jacmel.  If we had left that morning or the day before we would not have been able to land.  All these miracles happened because of prayer and trusting in God.
 Boss Telefant picked us up and took us to Cyvadier.  We were stopped by so many people in our village running towards the truck and stopping us.  So many people were glad to see us.  We all got lots of hugs and kisses and many others were dancing in the street.
     Rachel was extremely excited to see us.  She ran outside to meet us and jumped in the truck and starting hugging and kissing everyone.  LeeLein and Esther (Rachel’s friends) grabbed me as soon as I got out of the truck. 
     We dropped the luggage off and then Boss Telefant, Met Tony, Dad, Linda, Rachel, and I went to Jacmel to survey the damage. It was bad but not as bad as Port-au-Prince.  They recovered 2,000 bodies in one day and mahy more are still missing and presumed dead.  The hospital collapsed.  We went by and there were people every where in the yard.  Children with no parents.  I told them I would be back tomorrow to help as much as I could.
     I talked with the Mayor of Jacmel and told him we would take up to 12 children under the age of 6 who had lost their parents.  He was relieved and very thankful.  I was exhausted and told him I would see him tomorrow.
It is now 8:30 p.m.I just felt a huge tremor from the earthquake. I am going to close.  I am so overwhelmed I do not know what to do or where to start.  Tomorrow I am going back to the hospital and the mayor’s office and see what I can do to help.  Linda, Mom, Dad, and Rachel will also go to help.

Here are short term plans:

We are going to feed additional children besides our school children.

There is a possibility we will start a small orphanage if the need is there.

Here are some specific prayer requests:

1.     Pray for the children who lost parents. 

2.     Pray God will guide us in helping the neediest children.

3.     Pray for wisdom for us in choosing children who need help.

4.     Pray God will provide the needed funds to help     

 

 

God Bless

Tina Isenhower

Missionary to Haiti

A Successful Day of Sitting in the Cold

January 5th, 2010 by joe

Tried to post these for a while, but had issues…Got this old fella the Saturday after Thanksgiving using a gun made by my brother John, the .358 Wisley. Shot him on the run from about 60 yards. I’m guessing around 175 lbs dressed out…sure makes great chili!

The Extra Work Ain’t So Bad…It’s The Lack of Sleep

January 1st, 2010 by joe

8 years ago this holiday season, I spent some time with my bride-to-be in Chicago, celebrating Christmas with her family. The month before, I had asked her dad for permission to marry her, at a Denny’s restaurant no less, and I was happy to have been given the go ahead. Things were running along smoothly over Christmas break until my 1993 Blazer, Old Blue, threw a serpentine belt in the parking lot of Calvary Memorial Church in Oak Park. A belt isn’t that expensive, but I barely had enough money to my name to cover gas on the way back home. Without knowing my situation, Mel’s dad, Bob, offered to pay for the belt and I gladly accepted. Melissa knew I didn’t have much money, and also knew I wasn’t working that semester (I’d saved my money from my summer job and decided I would enjoy one last semester spending time with my friends before real life called my number!). What she didn’t know was the reason I had no money was because I’d purchased an engagement ring for her with my savings, and that I was planning to start working as soon as second semester started. Armed with the limited knowledge she had of my finances, she shared with her dad all of her concerns about my lack of funds and that she had no idea how I would even be able to afford an engagement ring. This prompted dear sweet dad to take his future son-in-law on a little drive around town. I knew what was coming, and to make the conversation a bit shorter and sweeter, I stuffed the little ring box in my pocket and pulled it out at just the right time. After seeing I had already purchased a ring, Bob breathed a bit easier knowing I would work hard to care for his daughter, and we had a good ole time visiting different parts stores trying to track down the aforementioned serpentine.
          Later in the week, as we were celebrating at her Uncle Joe and Aunt Deb’s, Mel’s worries finally got the best of her and she let me have it with both barrels. She had tons of heated questions about my work ethic, money saving principles, ability to care for her and a family, you know, all sorts of fun stuff! I tried to reassure her I would always take good care of our family, even pick up an extra job if needed, and she didn’t need to worry, but it finally came down to me blurting out “I’ve already got your freaking ring!” At that point, her eyes leaked a little bit, the conversation took a much brighter turn, and we were able to move past her concerns. It was a Merry Christmas indeed, as less than a month later, we were engaged!
           I tell you all that to bring us to the present. Due to my job at camp which requires me to raise my own support, we’re at a point financially where I’ve had to pick up that extra work I promised I was willing to pick up 8 years ago. We just picked up health insurance and were charged for the first 2 months at one time, plus recently picked up a car payment, plus have the expenses of having a new son, plus lots of other stuff I won’t bore you with. As it stands, after paying our necessary bills, we have a little less than $100 to get us through the month. I know this is something of our choosing, and I’m perfectly happy with our position in life, but it has made for a very busy Christmas break around our house. Aside from a few days in Chicago, I’ve spent most every possible work day just outside of Bedford, my hometown, at Crane Naval Base, working with my brother on a job remodeling one of the office buildings for the Army. It’s an hour long drive from my brother Josh’s house, where I’ve been staying, and we’ve usually been on the road by around 6-6:15. I generally get back around dark, and have just enough time to shower, get something to eat, and think about bed. It’s a tiring schedule, while trying to keep up with things at camp, but the extra money has certainly made a difference the last few weeks. I’m hoping to be able to keep up some extra work on the side for as long as necessary to make ends meet. We’re currently at about 65% of our monthly fundraising goal, and if I can avoid hitting myself in the knee with a sledgehammer again in the near future, I should be able to make up the difference until our fundraising allows the extra work to yield extra money, instead of necessary money. This is the part of the blog for the obligatory “If you’re looking for a place to send your tithes and offerings, I know a guy working at a camp whose family could really make a difference with it” speech! Seriously though, if you’d like to partner with us to make a difference in the lives of thousands of people both here and around the world, let me know and we’ll chat.
         To further explain the sledgehammer comment, I was working on Tuesday, trying to bust off some bolts that were hopelessly stuck in 60 year old concrete where we are doing the remodel. I was on my knees with a 3 lb sledge and swinging it hard enough to bend the 1/2 inch bolts one way and then the other to break it off. I had managed to bend one away from me and was trying to hammer it back when one of my swings glanced off the bolt and found it’s mark on the meaty part of my knee, just above the knee cap. For that, I was fortunate, as hitting my knee cap would have probably shattered it. I did what I generally do when I’m in so much pain I can barely speak, I laughed. For me, that’s my general response to pain, as it keeps me from crying or cussing! The next couple days were rough, as I had to keep my leg out straight to even bend over, but it feels better now. The only bad part is having to tell everyone that yes, I was a big enough idiot to hit myself with a sledgehammer!
            To close this one off, I know I’m not the only one whose ever had to pick up an extra job, so let the world know what your craziest side job has been. I know there’s some weird stuff out there. I think mine was dressing up like a two-legged horse and spouting off about how great 1340 WBIW is as a radio station. Perks: $25/hr and no one can actually see your face. Drawbacks: Wearing a 50 lb horse costume in 90 degree+ heat, having to keep bags of ice in your “hooves” to keep the blood circulating past your wrists cool enough to keep you alive!

Happy New Year everyone!

Loss of a Legacy

December 24th, 2009 by joe

Last year, after the hike was over, I was intent on keeping the beard as long as possible…that lasted all of 3 days since we were heading to Mel’s 10 yr reunion…So, here are the pics of the beard coming off…thinking about growing it back, what do you think?

If It’s Not Worth Doing Right, It’s Just Not Worth Doing

December 24th, 2009 by joe

I was raised with the mantra above continually being repeated to me as it related to any facet of my life. My dad never cared if I got straight A’s, as long as my best effort didn’t result in straight A’s. If I could produce at that level, then I’d better bring home every report card covered in A’s, the more +’s, the better. Thus, it was second semester of my freshman year of college before I ever got anything less than an A on any subject on any report card. The class was LART, a snore of a class at AU that teaches the history of the church of God movement and other junk I didn’t really care about. Halfway through the semester, I tore ligaments in my ankle and had to miss a few classes as a result. My doctor visits were mostly during LART class and, since I was working to get my education at a place that gave you lower marks for poor attendance and not just poor performance, I received the aforementioned lower grade (a B+) and was livid. I called my dad, looking to get a sympathetic ear and some empathy for my anger, and his flippant response was simply, “Life sucks, then you die.” For him, he knew I’d tried my best given the circumstances, and that was enough.

Earlier in my life, one of my chores was taking out the trash at our house each week. It was the only time I ever ventured into the room on the right at the end of the hall. My two older brothers, James and John, called those few square feet home and kept Josh and I out under threat of death and dismemberment. At one point though, someone (it wasn’t me) snuck into the room, poured a bottle of deer pee (used for hunting, not medicinally!) on John’s bed, and lived to tell about it. While the culprit will remain nameless, he’s the best twin brother ever! I remember one particular chore day when I cautiously made my way into the filth hole where James and John slept and reached for the red plastic barrel-shaped trash can just inside the door on the left. I knew if I went in further than needed to reach the trash, my life was forfeit, so I determined to quickly dump the trash into my bag and be gone before anyone saw reason to harass me. I got the trash in the black bag and had turned to leave when I felt a hand grab the back of my neck and pull me back into the darkness. I was sure I was a goner! I held my breath and waited for the beating I was certain to endure, but it never came. The lights came on, and there stood my oldest brother, clutching my shoulder in one hand and the trash can in the other. My look was one of sheer terror, but for once, his was a look a kindness, sort of. He pointed to the inside of the trash can and asked what I saw. As I looked, still expecting death at any moment, I managed to stammer about the contents inside. There was a snotty tissue, some nasty gum stuck to the side, and a few other unmentionable items. Once I’d given inventory of the remaining trash, he told me to go ahead and get the rest out of the can and reminded me again that anything worth doing was worth doing right.

I’ve never forgotten that advice, and, to be honest, it is one of the reasons I’ve struggled mightily to keep this blog up to date. When we were hiking, every day was a new adventure, a new gripe, or some new experience to write about. I also had countless hours to think about what to say each day. These days, when the monotony of life gets in the way of adventure, I find it hard to continue bringing interesting things to the world wide web for everyone to read. I honestly wish I could do better, and I would like to promise I’ll be more consistent, but I’d hate to say that and make myself a liar. So, for those who like to comment and call me names for not blogging often enough, keep them coming. It reminds me to stop slacking!

We’re visiting family in Chicago now and everyone is crazy about the boy. It’ll be fun to see what he gets for Christmas, not that he’ll know any better, but fun just the same. Jake did role over on his own for the first time yesterday, which was pretty cool. I guess he’ll be driving soon! Merry Christmas everyone, and hopefully this won’t be my last blog of the year!

Absence Makes The Blogging Harder

November 24th, 2009 by joe

Wow…I was just cruising past the ole website and I discovered it has been two whole weeks since I’ve posted anything. I wish I could give a good reason like I’ve been doing c-sections on at risk bovine babies or digging a hole in which to bury old Oprah episodes, but I guess I’ve just been lazy. I have done some deer hunting the last week and a half, but that endeavor has yet to yield anything but wet clothes and wild theories about what all the squirrels do with their time when they’re not chattering wildly at each other, crashing through the leaves like little deer deterents, and/or just making a general nuisance of themselves. I’ve spent probably close to 20 hours in the woods and have just seen the butt end of 3 measly deer. I have, however, seen enough of the aforementioned chattering rats with fluffy tales that if I were to somehow speak their langauge, and entice them to assemble with promises of free walnuts for everyone, their numbers would probably be enough to overthrow at least a handful of small countries!

In other news, Jake is growing like a weed and getting more and more animated daily. On Sunday night, Melissa was playing with him and actually got him to giggle for the first time. Having him around is such a blessing and source of joy for us. I’m looking forward to so many things we can do with father/son time…”late night pitch-n-putt, cruise the livestock auction for 4-H babes, throw stuff of a bridge”…

Last weekend, around 20 or so of us associated with the camp packed up and headed west across the cornfields to Peoria for the National Missionary Convention. We set up our booth, complete with a giraffe, a baboon, a tiki bar, my old red truck with the Tap Tap on the back, a fake fire, a creepy old animatronic man named Mr. Feather, 10,000 s’more bars, and loads of other tacky crap, right in the middle of all the flannel boards, cardboard displays, and general tackiness you’d expect to find at a convention for and by people who haven’t lived in the states for most of their adult lives! It was a beautiful disaster! What came out of the event, aside from crazy comments about our booth and the civic center staff eating their weight in our s’more bars, was a good number of contacts with missionaries from around the world who are interested in partnering with the camp on various different levels. It was amazing to talk to so many people, working in so many different countries, doing so many different kinds of ministry, who were willing and excited about partnering with the camp. We also saw many old friends, including a guy I did a choir tour with in high school called Highest Praise whom I haven’t seen in 10+ years. He is doing ministry in China and changing all sorts of lives for the Kingdom. I look forward to this event every year, as it is a great reminder that God is active all over the world and wants me to be a part of that.

As I close for the day, it seems appropriate, given the season, to ask any and all who are willing what you’re thankful for today. I know, everyone always asks that question this time of year, and I know, you get tired of answering. To that I say, don’t be a turd! Give some thought to the blessings in your life and pass those thoughts on to the rest of us. Cause if there’s anything we could all use, it’s the chance to be reminded of our blessings…does turd have a “u” or an “e?” Peace. Out.

Jake Pictures - October 17-Nov 5, 2009

November 8th, 2009 by joe

Bucket List (a work in progress)

October 29th, 2009 by joe

Yesterday was my monthly sabbatical day and I spent it taking stock of some of my life experiences thus far and putting down of paper some things I’d like to experience before I die. Let’s call it a bucket list. You’ll find the current list below. I’m certain I’ll be adding more to it as time goes on. As a point of reference, the many hiking items with (BP) after them refer to the BackPacker magazine edition in which I first discovered the particular hike. If you have any suggestions I should add, please pass them on. I’d also love to see your own list, if you have one. What a great tragedy to wake up at the end of life only to discover some of the finer moments have slipped through your grasp. The final bullet is empty so the list is never really complete. Enjoy:

Joe’s Bucket List

 

  • Hike the Pacific Crest Trail
  • Hike River to River Trail
  • Hike Knobstone Trail
  • Hike America Discovery Trail
  • Bike across United States
  • Run a mini-marathon
  • Run a full marathon
  • Hike Grand Canyon
  • Raft Grand Canyon
  • Visit Redwood forest
  • Stand on highest point of every state in US
  • Hike Florida Trail
  • Compete in a triathlon
  • Attend Winter Olympics
  • Hike Wonderland Trail around Mt. Rainier
  • Mountain bike in Utah
  • Hike a slot canyon in Utah
  • Hike Cathedral Canyon Gorge – Fredrickstown, MO (BP 5/09)
  • Hike Katahdin and see view from the top, Knife’s Edge on the way down
  • Visit Glacier National Park
  • Visit Banff National Park
  • Hike Bowen Lake Loop – Never Summer Wilderness, CO (BP 5/09)
  • Ford Jacks River Trail – Cohutta Wilderness, GA (BP 5/09)
  • Rock Scramble up Castle Peak, ID – (BP 5/09)
  • Hike Rocky Mountain Grand Loop (BP 8/09)
  • Hike to Spider Glacier, Glacier Peak Wilderness, WA (BP 8/09)
  • Hike Paintbrush-Cascade Canyons Loop, Grand Tetons N.P. (BP 8/09)
  • Hike Copper Canyon, Divisadero, Mexico
  • Summit Snowmass Mountain, CO
  • Hike John Muir Trail
  • Visit every national park
  • Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro
  • Go on African safari
  • Sky Dive
  • Bungee Jump
  • Hike Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, Peru, South America
  • Hike across Corsica in the Mediterranean via GR 20 (BP 3/09)
  • Hike New Zealand’s Milford Track (BP 3/09)
  • Hike across England on Pennine Way (BP 3/09)
  • Hike Pyrenees, France
  • Hike Cape Wrath Trail, Scotland (BP 3/09)
  • Hike Zillertal Alps, Austria (BP 3/09)
  • Visit Sweden/Norway
  • Hike Vermont’s Long Trail
  • Go to Hawaii
  • Go on a cruise
  • Visit Alaska
  • Visit Australia
  • Visit Paris
  • Go dog-sledding
  • Raft the Gauley River, WV
  • Apply for “Amazing Race”
  • Visit every National Park
  • Hike Mummy Range, Rocky Mountains, CO
  • Ride entire Blue Ridge Parkway on a motorcycle
  • Spend a week in the woods with only a knife, flint, and the clothes on my back
  • Get Pilot’s license
  • Canoe from Converse to New Orleans